Lives in Canterbury

Very late 40's growing old disgracefully - just lost 8 stone, but still a handful!!
Size 18/20 now. Am very happy person, very creative and colourful and laugh a lot (not maniacally you understand, only when its appropriate!! - just in case you were worried and going off in the wrong direction!). Love good restaurants, elite hotels, travel and shopping. Am not your "housewifey" type tho, can't bear domesticity. Ok at pointing at what needs doing tho!! Love dry witty and sarcastic men who are bright and can manage real women. Like funky black guys with dreadlocks and white men with a bit of a tan!! Please note that to me, a date is NOT turning up on my doorstep in the dead of night with half a coconut and a joint. Neither do I "go for a drink". I expect a man to want to go out to dinner and to SERIOUSLY want to get to know me. Otherwise, don't waste your time. Similarly, if you go to Star Trek conventions, collect things, wear a duffle coat, or turn up for a date in ripped jeans and a t shirt, do quit while you are ahead - I will probably make you cry.